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I have a friend that has terrible body odor. I don't want to insult or offend her. She is from a European country and has lived here for over 30 years and probably doesn't realize there is a "smelly" problem. How can i tell her without ruining the friendship??? I am with her at meetings and in social groups. I am embarassed for her. Please help and don't say to directly tell her because I find that difficult to do.
From ANXIOUS
"X"
Why don't you take her to one of those wonderful shops in the Mall that sell all kinds of great smelling bath and beauty products? You can point out all the neat stuff and encourage her to purchase some "because she really is a 'vanilla' (strawberry, whatever!) kind of person!" If she doesn't take the hint, use the occasion to buy her some yourself as a "gift" for all the great things that she has done for you.
And if you can't bring yourself to do the above, buy a gift basket and send it to her anonymously! Just make sure that they are "cleaning" kinds of products and not just cover-up scents which would only add to her problem!
"Boomer"
If you can't be direct with this woman then try subtle approaches - give her a small gift for a special occasion including scented bath soaps, lotions or sprays. Perhaps you could make social get-togethers at the gym and express how great a refreshing shower feels after a sweaty workout. Any way you decide to act, you'll eventually have to accept your friend for who she is and how she lives her life.