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my ex-husband/childrens father/boyfriend, has just changed jobs when he goes to work in the afternoon someone named sharon calls telling me I know he is at work but would you tell him that i called and then she hangs up.i have been involved with the phone company trying to find out who this person is i have caller i d and i know she calls from the same payphone every time (even in the middle of the night) i finally got sick of it and changed my # now she is sending mail to the house and i dont know what to do. he says there is nothing going on and he dosent even know this person and he cant see why i am letting it bother me so much. any suggestions?
"X"
If you believe your partner, then don't answer the phone when she calls (since you have caller ID, you know it's her) and write "refused, return to sender" on her mail and give it back to the post office. That will take care of the problem. That is, that will take care of the problem if you believe your partner.
If you don't believe him, that is a whole 'nother problem and like "X" I can't help wondering if lack of trust/infidelity was the reason that your partner is now your ex.
"Boomer"
Get to the bottom of this, quickly. Obviously something is going on, or
was going on, and your man had better just come clean. I'm wondering,
since he's your ex-husband, what it was that made him an ex anyway. If
you couldn't put up with his lies, wandering, or disrespect the first
time, what made you think it'd be better a second time around?