Dear Two Views,

I am writing in desperate hopes of some advice.It all started over 15 years ago I was only a small child but I remember it very well. My father was an alcoholic and he was gone a lot. My mother was stuck at home taking care of 3 kids. I guess she needed attention so in turn she had an affair with my uncle(dad's brother).

Everyone eventually found out but somehow they managed to stay together. Presently they've been married for 26 years.My father has totally straightened up and is a very well respected hard working man. I love both my parents very much. I have a lot of respect for my father. The problem is I am positive that the affair has started again. I think it's been going on for a couple of years, but it's become more obvious lately. I feel like I should tell my father but I also feel as if I would be betraying my mother and tearing their marriage apart. I know what she is doing is terribly wrong and it keeps me constantly worried and upset. It would kill my father if he ever found out, but it's not fair the way they are using him.

Please help me. I 'm losing it and I just don't know what to do.

Desperately worried

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