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There is a guy that I am very close with. He and I are very close, as friends, every day we find something else in common. For awhile I thought I really liked him, but now I realize that it was just a crush. This other girl liked him for awhile and for some reason it made me terribly jealous. He didn't like her in return, but it still bothered me. What the problem is, is that I think that I'm just physically attracted to him. But I don't even think he's kissed a girl. Which is very surprising, he's quite good looking.
What should I do? Does this whole love/friendship thing really matter, all of us will be going to different colleges in a couple of months. please help.
confused
If you're worried about your jealous feelings - it's only natural, since we all crave attention that if your male friend was entertaining other possible relations that you'd be jealous or envious of his attention.
Since everyone is parting campany soon, I'd suggest you keep complications to a minimum and keep good firends at hand!
"X"
If you took the time to write, then yes, the whole love/friendship thing really matters! As friends, the two of you are very close. It sounds like you aren't sure that guys and gals can be just friends, so you are looking for more. You need to recognize that all male/female relationships don't HAVE to develop into love. Accept your friendship for what it is, don't force it to be something else. Friendship will survive different colleges, infatuations won't.
"Boomer"
I'm not really sure what you're confused about - do you want a relationship or not? Maybe you should figure that out first. If you just want to be friends then I suggest you put aside any ideas about a physical relationship because that would only complicate things.