Dear Two Views,

I recently meet a guy who was cute, funny, and normal. He told me he is separated from his wife for the past three years and their three kids live with him. He is everything I've always wanted in a man and we seemed so compatable in every way. I've always scoffed at "love at first sight" stories but this has hit me like a ton of bricks. I can't forget about him and my instincts tell me he is an honest and good hard working man. My problem is that he has not called me. It has been about 3 weeks since we met and I'm afraid he won't call because he may think I wouldn't want to get involved with a man with so much baggage. I wanted to call him but his number is unlisted. Then I managed to find out his number but I don't know if I should use it. I really believe in my heart this man is very special and could change my life forever but my head says I'm acting like a lovesick teenager and I should stop obsessing over him. Please help me decide what to do. Why do you think he never called? P.S. In case you're wondering, we did not sleep together so it's not like this was a case of a good time one-nighter. Please answer soon and please don't publish my name or e-mail address. thanks.

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