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Well you see I was dating my 3rd cousin and nobody knew about it, I mean nobody. I loved him, I love him more than anything else in the world,and I lost my virginity to him too. We were so in love with each other, and we'd see each other as much as possible, but then just recently he broke up with me. He said that it could never work out because we're related. I just sat there, I couldn't say anything! There were so many things I wanted to say but I guess I just figured he had his mind made up, because he was so serious. I asked him if he even loved me, and he said that at one time he did and he might still but he's not sure. He said that he couldn't say he didn't because then he would be lying, but he also said he couldn't say that he did. I don't know what to do! but i have to do something, because I can't just sit back and let the one person I love more than anything else just walk out of my life, cousin or not! Please help?! I mean should I try to get back together with him, or what?
Thank you for your help,
"X"
When you love someone and they don't love you back, it's hard, very hard. While this person obviously had, and may still have, some feelings for you, he does not see a future with you and he wants to move on. You don't HAVE to do something, as a matter of fact, You CAN'T do anything to make him come back to you. Remember the good times, forget the bad times and go on with your life without him. There are other fish in the sea and perhaps you'll do better outside of your family gene pool!
You can always try to get a person back, but if that person doesn't want
to be "gotten," then what's the point? It sounds as if you've had several
heart-to-heart discussions with your boyfriend about the matter and he,
for his own reasons, has decided to end the relationship. Let him do
that. If he makes an effort to reestablish ties, then it would be your
decision whether to resume the relationship or not, however right now he's
made the final decision and you need to accept that decision.