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My ex wife & I got back together, we have 3 beautiful children, here`s the deal..... she`s in love with another woman but hasn`t admitted it to me yet, I know this to be true, let's leave it at that, when she`s with me she seems like she really loves me, almost to the point where I start to doubt what I know is true. Her birthday is coming up and she's going on a trip to do some business but the place that she is going is where this woman she`s in love with lives, this is stressing me out so bad that it's starting to affect my health, I love her with all my heart and don't want to give her up. I keep going as if I don't know anything, I guess I just don't want it to end but I know it will end soon. what should I do?
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You and your wife need professional help immediately. Get into counseling so that you can establish the truth of your relationship. Only then can you decide what to do next. if your wife won't go with you, go alone. Take care.
You should talk to your wife.
Nothing will be resolved until you and she sit down and discuss, honestly,
what's going on in your relationship. Until you do this, you'll only go
on upsetting yourself and imagining the worst. Make a date with your wife
to spend a few alone hours and explain to her how you're feeling; how
things appear to you. Whatever you do, don't tell her you "know" this is
true - you won't know what's true until she tells you.