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I am a single male, dating a divorced female. We are both learning disabled so we do have something in common. She has no kids. We are both in our 30's. She does not want to marry again. I do want to marry her someday. Should I continue to be friends with her and hope she will fall in love again or should I find someone else?
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That depends. Does she like you just as a friend, no romantic interest at all? Or does she love you but is overly cautious because she has gone through the pain of divorce once and is not anxious to repeat the experience? If she doesn't think you are her romantic "type", well then, keep her as a friend, but start looking elsewhere for your soulmate. But if she loves you and is still shy about committment, stay calm and give her the time she needs to trust your love. Good luck!
There are no guarantees. If you really enjoy her company, and you're interested in a long term commitment, then take the chance - there are no rewards without risk.