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Good day,
You probably get hundreds of these a day, but I'll take a shot anyway. Ok, I'll start with I'm an 18 yr. old male in Canada who fell in love with a girl via e-mail where I worked this summer. I worked desining webpages for small rural communities. There was a site for others across Canada that held the same position. I met a girl, and have had lots of e-mail talks with her as well as on the telephone. I live in BC, she lives in Manitoba. I'v never even seen what she looks like, but I don't care, she is a beutiful person on the inside and that is what counts for me. I know she is 17, Chinese ( I'm white, don't mater), and I'm actually thinking of buying a plane ticket. I think about her all the time and feel drawn to her. I even sent her a photo of a rose, and made the excuse of I was testing the capeabilities of my e-mail. I have no idia if she feels the same way, I have no way to aproch the topic (no good with females, but love 'em so much). I don't want to scare her off & ruin what I already have. I would gladly give it all up for just one moment of holding her (don't worry not suicidal, thats not me at all).
I just want to be with her in the worst way, It hurts when Im not talking to her. I saved all my paychecks this summer just so I could buy a computer and keep talking to her. I need some advice, I realy need a way to aproch her and conffess, that I am in love with her. Plese respond. Excuse the spelling errors.
Bapsis.
I'd say give it a shot - ask her what she thinks about just a nice visit and see where it goes from there. Whatever happens, you can never have enough friends.
"X"
Bapsis,
Internet/e-mail is a great way to start a relationship...no superficial worries about how your hair looks, what your breath is like, etc.! For the really shy person, it's a great ice-breaker and a good way to meet people. But at some point you have to come out from behind that keyboard and face the real world. It sounds like it's that time for you!
The fact that you have spoken to this girl by phone means you have progressed from total anonymity to some personal contact. Now, you should be able to just ask if you could visit her. Then take it from there! You will either buy that plane ticket, or not. Should you actually meet with her, you will be able to add another dimension to your relationship.
However, in any case, I don't think that you should just blurt out that you love her, that very well could scare her off and ruin the friendship that you already have.
Good Luck!
"Boomer"
I guess you could start by asking this special girl if she'd be interested in meeting. Perhaps you could go visit her, or maybe she & a girlfriend would like to check out B.C. (girls like to do these kinds of things together). I know several friends in my classes who have met some special people over the internet, and then of course there's a couple of people who have had some awful encounters. Unfortunately, that's a risk we take no matter how we meet people.